If you’re like me who struggled for some years without any Valentine, you would be feeling sad and anxious by now.

Honestly, I know the feeling. Having all your friends around you pepper you with Val’s day plans and you wondering if anyone would val you….

I used to ask myself if I wasn’t beautiful or attractive or may be something was wrong with me, because of my unendowed physical features at that time .

I look back now and thank God because if I had, I possibly might have been deceived into giving away my body in exchange for perishable gifts all under the mirage of being ‘in love’.

Dear Single lady, not being in a relationship at this time is not the end of the world o. Valentines Day will come and go! Please, don’t send yourself into depression because of this.

I know you want to feel loved, who doesn’t? However, I assure you that the man that would love and value you for who you are will come.

Do something interesting this year instead of sulking - dress up, make up, look good, smell nice, take yourself out on a date, order your own meal, buy yourself a beautiful gift, address a card to yourself and write how much you mean to you .

The beginning of finding true love actually starts with loving yourself. Self love is very attractive!

To those of you who would receive gifts on that day, please, know that even iPhone 14 is not anywhere close to your value! Don’t get carried away! Don’t let any man put you under any pressure to do what God would not be proud of. Don’t sell yourself cheap.

Today, my story is different. I can’t count how many gifts I’ve received from my darling husband and he doesn’t even need Valentines Day to express his love to me

I’d leave you with this - never forget that you are loved the most by God and his heart beats for you!

I love you too!

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© Dr Blessing Ekundayo

Relationship Educator and Mental Health Practitioner