This is for my Purposeful Single Ladies,

I know you can’t wait to get married.

I know you have been praying for Mr Right for such a long time.

I know you are dream daily of your wedding day.

I know the pressure is intense.

I know you sometimes feel embarrassed to go for weddings because those way younger than you are getting married and people can’t stop asking you that question you dread.

I know you sometimes wet your pillow to sleep because you feel like time has gone.

I have a word for you…

Please do not settle!

Do not settle for just any man that comes your way despite the pressure.

My heart breaks when I hear of purposeful ladies who missed it maritally just because they could no longer wait.

Don’t meet a man on Monday and get married on Wednesday! Please, don’t rush into marriage!

Time reveals who a person truly is. If you would be together for a lifetime, why the rush?

So many people who have rushed into marriage are rushing out. Do your due diligence.

Take this from me, you are better of being single and living your best life than being married and living a miserable life.

Being single isn’t a disease that you pray to be cured from. It is a huge blessing if you take advantage of the opportunities in it.

Marriage is beautiful but it can mar your life if you miss it. Don’t be desperate, enjoy your single life.

Remember this: There is no late comer in marriage.

You will not miss it maritally in Jesus name. Amen

God bless you.

Dr Blessing Ekundayo

Relationship Educator and Mental Health Practitioner