Dress decently not seductively
Those who know me well enough know that I’ve got some good taste in fashion, even before I got married, thanks to my delectable mum. I love to dress well, look good and presentable at all times. I love it when people dress nicely and like to compliment them. Even when I see guys dress smartly, I get some inspiration of how to pimp my husband’s wardrobe 
but that’s not even the point of this post.
Many ladies think that to get a guy or look attractive you need to dress almost nude, exposing parts of your boobs (someone said, “as long as your nipples are covered, it’s fine” 
), putting your hot thighs on display and sometimes, even when it appears as though they are dressed completely covered, you can almost make a drawing of how they would look if naked because of their extremely tight fitting and transparent clothing. Even as a lady, I’m like ARGH
and I take a second and third look at such dressing! When I see ladies in such scandalous and scanty outfits, I wonder how many times men look at them and God help the ones who don’t have self-control, they go after what has been advertised.
See ladies, men are drawn by what they see, that’s just how they are wired, while we are drawn by what we hear. So when you wear those seductive clothes, even when you think it doesn’t matter, you attract the wrong attention towards you. You find men asking you out and getting into a relationship and telling you all the sweet romantic things you want to hear with a goal in mind – to have a feel of the ‘advert’ you have put out and satisfy their lustful desires. And contrary to your intention (well, this is hoping you have goodly intentions for dressing that way), they are not wanting a serious relationship with you. Once they are done getting what they want, they leave your heart shattered and broken into pieces. Why? They were attracted to your container not your content!
Dear young lady, please cover up! Dress the way you would like to be addressed. Dress responsibly and not seductively to attract a responsible guy. Your beauty is not in how much skin you are able to expose, your beauty oozes out from who you really are. I am not saying you should wear long sleeves and long skirts or baggy pants 24/7, I am saying you should dress decently not exposing sensual parts of your body for whatever reason. Don’t dress like a harlot, instead dress like a queen expecting her king. Queens do not expose their body yet they remain dignified from generation to generation. Dress to glorify God!
God bless you!
Kindly leave a comment and share your thoughts with me.
