Dear single lady, you have this very close male friend who has been around you for some years now, he takes you out on dates, you both enjoy each other’s company and spend most of your free times together. Everyone around thinks you both are an item because of the guy’s attention and show of affection, you like him and you have been hoping that one day he would pop your dream question but he hasn’t been forthcoming.

Dear sister, purpose is everything, it is very key in friendship and relationship. Ask your male friend to define the friendship you both share and the purpose. No, I am not asking you to propose to him! Find out where the friendship is headed and his vision for the friendship. You might be surprised he just considers you as a very good friend, enjoys your company a lot and nothing more.

Don’t make assumptions in such close friendships, don’t let any guy leave you in limbo while you wait endlessly and other potential guys think you are taken. Don’t waste your time with someone who is not thinking what you’re thinking. It is important that you both are on the same page to avoid stories that touch the heart.

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